ANGER

THE ANACLITIC TYPE AND THE LEGITIMIZATION OF CRAZINESS

The well documented enormous amount of anger we ventilate every day at home, at work, in the streets, to say nothing in warfare if there is one ongoing (and there is practically one active) is technically called «Anaclitic Anger» -a part and parcel of the well studied «Anaclitic Reaction» that takes place when the mother is taken away from the child while his/her self is still in the formation process. As mentioned by Sousa-Poza (International Journal of Psychotherapy. Part I: Theory Vol.9. Number 2. July 2005), there is no need for physical separation from the mother. If in subclinical forms, whenever the mother cuts de love, confirmatory-bond by lack of confirmation of the intrinsic lovability of the child. (Disconfirmation of the «Lovability Principle» -the child’s primary cognition whereby he/she feels lovable at 100% level of confidence.)Either maneuver aborts the formation of the self, and the first reaction is anger-protest because it is excruciating!

Anaclitic or «Primal» anger is a potent type of emotional anger exclusively triggered by the abortion of the human self (elephants, dolphins, and higher primates may have the basics of a self) triggered exclusively by aborting it (not only the human body has that «privilege») during its developmental years by lack of appropriate parental, motherly in particular, love input. Repeat: as the Strong Nuclear Force keeps the constituent particles of the nucleus constituting the nucleus together, love is the type of information that keeps the type of autoplastic information forming the self in place. No! don’t look for it on the «Modern Textbooks of Psychiatry» because the Mind is of no interest to male-mind psychiatric constructs. We are desperately trying to save our jobs via a materialistic-only view, the only view of Psychiatry. The only thing we understand.

And because to open the mind to our field would reveal catastrophically in some quarters how unhinged and distorted (sick?) the mind of the all-powerful male of the species is and how much blood does it have in its hands. How narcissistically insane he is Not a prestige-enhancing discovery -though perpetually sealed in the blood bath that constitutes the so-called «human history, which in reality means male-mind-history. Not pretty or conducive to further enhancement of the great leader of our species. History is just about to turn the page (I hope so) in a -narcissistic proto-fascists American Dictator of the right that almost fooled most of the people most of the time. He just made a vital mistake -as some of the Nazi world once made: He underestimated the Americans! and their love for freedom.

The reasons

In part, because the child is unable to distinguish -Mother-Father from God and for survival reasons of survival of the body and the self, deified his/her parents. Mother, in particular, creating a total idolatrous bond. As Donald Trump was so cultivating with his followers, like Hitler, Franco and Mussolini had done and overestimated, disregarding that Americans can take a lot and freedom is second nature to them. Yes, some of them can go out in the limb of «parallel facts» but are not permitted to last long there because, multiple defects aside, they are the freest culture in the world. FREEDOM is implanted in their upbringing at an early age, and YES unavoidably, some are not mature enough or psychopathological enough to try to twist It to the top for sordid personal purposes that come with the psychopathology of the Separation. «there is no God, and if there is only one it is me!»

Mr. Trump wallowed on that psychospiritual psychopathology, and Gosh! he did not lack followers suffering from the same disease. Eventually, it a byproduct of the crooked male-mind system of governance. Don’t dig too deeply, or you will find it everywhere in every male-mind system. As the covix-19 pandemic

 

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In a sane world, the parents would help the child redirect that bond towards the Creator, far from it in today’s world -we, appropriate that inappropriate amount of love and wallow in their adoration.

Humanity is psycho-spiritually cannibalizing its children, and that goes back even to the Bible.

«Because Moses said: Honor your father and mother. And who curses them be punished with death.»

Mark 7,8-18.

But forgot to add: «IF THEY SO DESERVE» AND «YOU CAN CURSE THEM IF THEY D’ONT.

An thus, parents get away scot-free with psychospiritual murder. Unknown to us, psychiatrists, to abort the self is as good as murder because a self-less body is not an alive human being.

-The real reality is that the child is being betrayed in his/her infancy by those we idolatrously adore out of innocence and survival. Unable to discern, children love their parents, mother in particular, with love reserved for God because he/she “fresh from the other side,” cannot discern between mother father and God.

And then, we rendered idolatry sacrosanct by dogmas such as the Fourth Commandment, which rendered parents IMMUNE from impeachment by society if they betray their children. Because we have declared parenthood «normal and untouchable by definition» without further scrutiny even if they are grossly dysfunctional -at the expense of the sanity of our children who later turn misfits («no good.») because «they did not listen to sacrosanct parental wisdom.»

Yes, it is rare, but not unusual to hear of parents, mothers included, who murder their kids!

Oh, brother!

Oh, lady!

To be adored as if you were God-in-person was not enough for you!? You had on top to have the right, to DESTROY THEIR SElVES, aborting them by lack of love WITH TOTAL IMPUNITY?

Oh, that must please God a lot!

This corrupt-idolatrous belief system protects misfit parenthood, which permits the vicious merry-go-round and around-and-around -at the expense of the sanity of our children. Shame on us!

 

-Personally, born to a rather macho-patriarchal male-system (an emotionally mute, «family» the first cult I met on earth) -I don’t remember receiving any wisdom about what are feelings-emotions for, what is life on earth for. What is it to be a self, or how should I prepare to be a decent father? And keep counting? We, men, ignore the vast realm of self-knowledge because it is of no help to become, let us say: «a powerful politician.» 😊

Male wisdom: 100%; self-knowledge: 0%. Yes, brother: hats off to your techno-scientific achievements. Sorry to say: we have been destroying each other and Mother Earth without self-knowledge from the psycho-spiritual realm.

How do we acquire self-knowledge?

With lots of that repellent feeling you have outlawed, that weakness, that sissy feeling called LOVE, LOTS OF LOVE STARTING RIGHT AT CHILDHOOD right when the self is forming and operating as an open information system absorbing all information offered to it right and left! Because the information contained in that feeling holds the pieces of information that form the self together so you can experience the feeling of being a completely wanted, “right” self. Instead of an unwanted, undesirable, incomplete piece of misery for the rest of your life, a nagging feeling you are trying to alleviate with substitutes like drinking, overworking,  overachieving, drugs, acting out that it has proven inadequate to the bone!

But you don’t give up, oh no! gods do not concede «defeat.» Such would be a non-macho weakness for you. Little Godzilla and your concubine were to take a serious look and declare your field of endeavour a “natural disaster.”-That would require a level of adulthood history proves you are far from achieving. Your level of dedication to parenthood compared with money, power, and prestige is negligible, for starters. Laughable😊.

Never mind, then we, adults, complain because it does not work when we try to make chicken soup out of the chicken shit we created😊.

Nothing is wrong with the soup brother. There is plenty wrong with you two and your consequent love-sterile psychology-psychiatry. They did not prepare you a bit to be parents, but you went ahead anyway. Yes, nature took care of you to make the body. Still, you failed miserably to help your kids develop a healthy self, a «me.» And your sick, male-mind culture looked the other way and sanctified you as «normal» and viable parent by definition, and looked the other way not to notice your «misfit» children. The sickest joke on earth -and not about to change anytime soon under the male aegis.

More suffering ahead for sure to maintain you silly boy on the throne. For sure.

Conway’s Alternative facts» (taken from WIKIPEDIA) was a phrase used by U.S.  Counselor to the Presidente  Kellyanne Conway during a Meet the Press interview on January 22, 2017, in which she defended White House Press Secretary Sean Spicer’s false statement about the attendance numbers of Donald Trump’s inauguration as President of the United States. When pressed during the interview with Chuck Todd to explain why Spicer would «utter a provable falsehood,» Conway stated that Spicer was giving «alternative facts.» Todd responded, «Look, alternative facts are not facts. They’re falsehoods. Conway’s use of the phrase «alternative facts» for demonstrable falsehoods was widely mocked on social media and sharply criticized by journalists and media organizations, including  Dan Rather, Jill Abramson, and the  Public Relations Society of America. The phrase was extensively described as Orwellian, particularly about the term doublethink. Within four days of the interview, sales of  George Orwell’s novel    Nineteen Eighty-Four had increased 95-fold, which The New York Times and others attributed to Conway’s use of the phrase, making it the number-one bestseller on  Amazon.com.

Conway later defended her choice of words, defining «alternative facts» as «additional facts and alternative information.»