HOW TO ABORT A SELF
Easy dear Watson!
The closest scientific analogy to what is a self is that of an INFORMATION SYSTEM.
WHICH IS NOT AUTONOMOUS. And therefore, needs what in psychological terms was called “MIRRORING” and “CONFIRMATION” in communication terms
But technically, we are talking about “REDUNDANCY” -not in its repetitive sense, but as reinforcement of the system. A Space vehicle or station carries multiple computer systems, in case there
A human being is born with a primal proto-cognition we have termed “THE LOVABILITY PRINCIPLE” -A SENSE THAT SHE/HE IS 100% LOVABLE. But to actualize in to a fully operational cognition -so the child can feel it, it needs to be kindled (given redundancy) by first by the parental figures with the message:
“Yes; you are absolutely lovable!” in its multiple expressions from a hug to a kiss to (later) numerous verbalBai equivalents.
Love, as we said elsewhere, is the “glue, the information” that holds all other messages to the self together. Comparable to the Strong Nuclear Force that keeps the elements (neutrons, protons, etc.) of the atomic nucleus together.
It is a “software” issue -and. Given the pathological limitations of the male-mind, IT IS ALL ABOUT HARDWARE!
Without that child-parental transaction, NO LOVE EQUALS MISCARRIED SELF. In the extreme case of FERAL CHILDREN raised by animals, it is well documented that no self at all forms
Unfortunately, in the macho-code love=caca-weakness! NO-FEELINGS has indeed become the epicentre of certain of fabled cultures British, German and Nordic in particular. Touted as “highly advanced” ones in particular! Specialized in showing the right appearances and DOING the right thing. That their selves are emotional mute and thus corrupted, it does not matter that they are blissfully ignorant that they live off a FALSE SELF!
How else could a German turn Nazi and place a pistol close to the posterior part of a neck and keep shooting victims until they had to change their uniform because their hand and sleeve were too full of brain tissue?? And…will that repeat. Oh, I think so! Because it is the culture that imprints the self, and that has not changed!