THE MIND OF THE MOTHER
The New York Times.
When Schools Closed, Americans Turned to Their Usual Backup Plan: Mothers
Claire Cain Mille-Wed, November 18, 2020
The uterus is the matrix of the body of the child. Lesser known-admitted is the fact that her mind is the matrix of the human self. What makes us «the person we are.» But not in male-mind Psychiatry; in it, «we are the brain» -by default. Because they only understand mater, nothing about the mind and knowing-divulge the true state of their minds would be scandalously compromising!
Worse yet, -not learnable in a man’s «Institution of Higher Learning!» -they don’t need one of our cherished degrees to carry on the most important job on earth! – who do they think they are!? Let’s bury this issue -deep! Because it would erode our magnificent standing exposing the egregious damage we, men, carry in our selves and inflict upon others.
And there is no doctrine, «ism,» «drug,» -or «technical know»-how that can fix that brother!
The most important -if unrecognized-job on earth, bar none. Unrecognized because it is exclusively a «natural» female’s job. Important because -no less than much of our SANITY depends upon it for the rest of our lives.
NO individual sanity = NO peace on earth. And there are no «Universities of Sanity.» Which is learned by a self -interacting with other selves. No, not so much yours, brother! IN CONSEQUENCE, HUMAN HISTORY, TECHNICAL ACHIEVEMENTS ASIDE, IS THE HORROR IT IS!
And once formed-deformed-or aborted, her mind remains its real backup for the life of it -or whatever is left.
No feat men can achieve. Yet we don’t seem to mind if, generation after generation, we are producing highly dysfunctional, «sick» selves -with all the pathological consequences for humanity at large!
Yet, so undervalued and underpaid «job»! In favour of men’s technical “know-how.” Men excel at alloplastic knowledge about the “out there.” Including killing tools of self-destruction. Women at the autoplastic “in here» (self-knowledge. The «Art of Being?»),” type of knowledge – the one upon which depends upon, no less than the human self’s sanity.
-But it is all about you, isn’t it -brother Narcissus?
No healthy self = no sanity= NO PEACE of mind = -no peace ON EARTH! -Making the price of your “leadership” criminally ruinous -brother.
But you hate to give up «POWER» -don’t you, brother? Even if you lose it in a legal election in a «democratic» country!
Because in your sick-deluded mind, you already defeated God at the «Battle of the Separation!»-and your sister, conveniently accommodated to that joke and pretended to confuse him with Him. Though she knows better because her mind is not yet as deteriorated as to be unable to FEEL -or have to hide it and lie to be «rational» and gain entrance in to the macho-club! Some try, though!
And the mind of the father?
The macho-code has rendered men emotionally challenged (mute). Nurturers -«incubators» of selves- we are not! But the input of our minds is critical in teaching the child to interface with the world as she/he grows up. Particularly with a male-ruled world.